A lot of people ask me why sugar babies have become so popular, and why rich men like to have them. I mean, I guess having mistresses has always been a thing for guys with money. What successful man hasn’t had a mistress at some point? We call it “sugaring” and all that, but it’s really just being a mistress. A “kept woman.” I even use the handle “keptcutie” on a lot of forums.
Being a sugar baby simply means that you have a relationship with a generous guy who will give you gifts and pay your bills. That’s really all it is. Like I said, you’re his mistress. Yes, oftentimes he’s married, or has a long-term partner, so it has to be kept hush-hush. But it’s a genuine relationship.
I love it when people say that sugaring is prostitution or “sex work.” I mean, my sides hurt when I hear that, I’m usually laughing so hard. Is being some rich man’s wife “sex work” then? Because let me tell you, it’s pretty much exactly the same thing as being a sugar baby. Same duties, same responsibilities, same amounts of cash changing hands (actually, usually a LOT more!!). The only real difference is that the wife is “officially” with him. Yeah, give me a break.
I’ve had sugar daddies who I’ve literally loved more than life itself. When somebody tells me I’m a prostitute, I just want to punch them in their ignorant noses. And not because I think there’s anything morally wrong with prostitution (consenting adults can do whatever they want, in my view), but because calling me a “whore” diminishes the level of my relationship with my sugar daddy. It’s basically saying that it’s all about just sex, and that’s completely NOT TRUE!!
So, people are going to be stupid and ignorant, and I can’t help that. But a lot of people actually DO understand what sugaring is about, and that’s why more and more girls are getting into it and becoming sugar babies. Because it allows them to find brilliant, successful, generous men to be with who can be good PROVIDERS. That’s what mating is really all about, when you think about it.